You’ve got a buyer interested.

They’ve seen the numbers. They like the deal. Then they say it:

“Cool, I’ll send my contractor.”

Cue the slow fade-out.

Because in most cases, this isn’t progress, it’s a stall.

And if you don’t know how to spot the difference, you’ll burn days (or weeks) thinking a deal is “almost there”… while it’s really slipping away.

This article breaks down:

• What that phrase actually means in different contexts

• When it’s a red flag (and when it’s not)

• How to respond without sounding desperate

• And how to protect your deal from falling apart

First: What “I’ll Send My Contractor” Could Mean

At face value, it sounds reasonable. Of course a buyer would want their contractor to check things out. After all:

• The rehab is a big part of the equation

• Scope and budget need to align

• Buyers want second opinions

But in reality? That phrase is often code for something else, and what it really means depends on the buyer’s motivation.

1. “I’m Just Not That Into This Deal”

This is the classic stall tactic.

The buyer doesn’t want to say “no” yet, so they say “contractor.”

You’ll hear it when:

• They’ve gone cold after initial interest

• They’re ghosting and you press them for a decision

• They’re trying to let you down easy

In this case, “contractor” = “excuse to delay or disappear.”

2. “I Want to Assign This but Need My Buyer’s Contractor to Check It”

Some buyers aren’t really buyers. They’re middlemen trying to assign the deal.

When they say “my contractor,” they often mean:

• The contractor of their buyer

• Someone checking the deal for someone else

• A stall until they get the green light from someone upstream

This introduces extra layers, and lowers your control over the timeline.

3. “I’m a Serious Buyer… But This is a Test”

Some experienced flippers do send contractors as part of due diligence. But when they do:

• They already like the numbers

• They’ve done their own napkin rehab calc

• They’re just confirming nothing’s hidden

In this case, they’re close to committing, but the speed and tone of their request will tell you whether this is real due diligence or just a smokescreen.

How to Know It’s a Red Flag

Not all “contractor” mentions are deal-killers, but there are clear signs it’s headed that way.

Here’s how to tell:

1. Vague Timing or Zero Urgency

Red flag if you hear:

• “Maybe this weekend…”

• “I’ll try to get them out there next week”

• “He’s kinda busy, I’ll let you know”

If you’re the one following up 48 hours later, the deal is drifting.

2. No Clear Offer Terms Yet

If they haven’t:

• Said what they’re offering

• Confirmed earnest money

• Given you a closing timeline

…then a contractor visit is not the final step, it’s a stall.

Serious buyers lead with the deal, then verify. Tire-kickers lead with delay.

3. They’ve Seen the Property Already

If they’ve walked it themselves, and still want a contractor “just to check things out”, they’re not really in.

This usually means:

• They’re scared of rehab

• They’re worried about something they won’t say out loud

• They’re looking for an excuse to back out without conflict

4. You’ve Heard This Before (and It Didn’t End Well)

Don’t ignore your gut.

If the last 3 times you heard this phrase, the deal died… you know what’s coming.

What to Say (and Not Say) When You Hear It

Okay, the buyer says it: “I’ll send my contractor.”

Don’t panic. But don’t celebrate either.

Here’s how to keep control of the deal without being pushy.

1. Confirm the Deal Is Real ,  First

Say this:

“Sounds good. Just to make sure we’re aligned, are we good on price and terms, pending contractor approval?”

You’re looking for a clear yes or no.

If they hesitate, dodge, or change the subject? They’re not in.

If they say yes? Now you’ve got a buyer. Move to the next step.

2. Set a Clear Deadline

Don’t say:

“Let me know when he can make it.”

Instead say:

“Cool, what day is he going? I’ll block the time with the seller.”
“I can hold the deal for 24 hours. After that, we open it up.”

This puts a clock on the stall and forces clarity.

3. Keep the Seller in the Loop

If your seller hears “a contractor’s coming” and then the buyer disappears… they’ll blame you.

Say this to your seller:

“One of the buyers wants to confirm their rehab numbers with a quick contractor walk-through. Should take less than 10 minutes, just to confirm scope. They’re close to finalizing.”

You’re signaling progress without overpromising.

4. Have a Backup Buyer Ready

Don’t pause all other activity.

Keep pushing the deal out.
Stay in convo with your #2 and #3 buyers.
Let them know it’s still open for now.

If the contractor flakes, or the buyer ghosts, you can pivot fast.

Advanced Move: Skip the Contractor Visit Altogether

You can preempt this stall by building trust earlier.

Here’s how:

Create a “Contractor-Friendly” Walkthrough Video

Highlight:

• Mechanical systems

• Crawl space

• Panel box

• Roof view

• Water heater

• HVAC

Narrate rehab concerns openly.

This allows buyers to share with their contractor without needing a visit.

Include a Sample Scope or Budget

Even a basic one-line rehab summary helps:

“$25K rehab: paint, flooring, bath, roof patch”

It gives buyers (and contractors) a starting point, and makes you look prepared.

Offer Access… But With a Deadline

“If a contractor visit helps you move forward, we can accommodate, but we’re moving fast on this one.”

Don’t let access become an indefinite stall tactic.

How to Handle Ghosting After the Contractor Visit

It happens.

They send someone… They say they’ll circle back… And then: silence.

Here’s how to handle it:

Step 1: Follow Up Once (Clearly)

“Hey, just checking in, should I keep holding this, or are you passing?”

Give them an easy out, and don’t chase if they stall again.

Step 2: Go Back to Your Warm Leads

“Hey, one of the buyers backed out due to contractor numbers. That means it’s back open. Want to take a second look?”

Create scarcity without drama.

Step 3: Learn From the Pattern

If every deal dies at “contractor,” ask:

• Are you attracting the wrong buyers?

• Are you not giving enough up front?

• Is the rehab unclear or intimidating?

• Are you giving too much control to one buyer?

Refine your process based on the pattern.

“Contractor” Means More Than It Sounds

It’s not the phrase, it’s what’s underneath it.

• Sometimes it means “I’m in.”

• Sometimes it means “I’m out.”

• Most of the time, it means “I’m unsure.”

Your job isn’t to block contractors.

Your job is to see through the smoke, and guide the deal where it needs to go.

So the next time you hear:

“I’ll send my contractor”…

Don’t celebrate yet. Don’t freak out either. Just ask the right questions, and keep the clock ticking.